For the most part, children absolutely fall head over heels for puppies. There’s just something so lovable about those furry canines that make kids completely giddy and want nothing more than to play with them. There are a rare few that are skittish around dogs, my son included, but the interest level is definitely there, just from a greater distance away. Whether your child loves dogs or is scared to death, there are important skills you should teach your toddler about interacting with dogs. It’s never too late or too early to teach your child to have respect for animals, it could make the difference between life and death.
Never Run Up to a Dog
The first rule of thumb to teach your child is to never run up to a dog they do not know. They need to understand that dogs could interpret their excitement as a threat and react badly. They must always approach dogs in a non-threatening and respectful manner to start off on the right foot (or paw). On this same note, your toddler should understand that they need to be with an adult they know before approaching an animal and to never initiate contact with a stray dog or visit with a stranger’s dog, unless you are there and give the ok first.
Show They’re Friendly
Teach your child that until a puppy is comfortable with them, they must show them that they are friendly. As dogs are very sensory, it’s best that they hold their hand out to them, palm up, to allow the dog to smell them out and give the friendly acknowledgement that he wants their attention. If the dog doesn’t react positively, the child should walk away with the supervising adult.
On the other hand, if your child is fearful of getting close to dogs let them watch you interact positively with the animal. They may not warm up right away, but it never hurts to teach proper interaction with dogs by example. Your toddler may want to get a little closer, but always respect their fear and do not force unwanted interaction. They will come around in their own time.
Be Gentle
Once a dog has given your child the green light to accept their attention, show them how to gently love on the dog. At this age, it’s best if your toddler pets the dogs back in a head-to-bottom direction to ensure a pleasurable visit for both, as some dogs may be particular or sensitive in other areas. Teach your child to be respectful of their eyes, nose, mouth and ears. Just as your child doesn’t like to be poked in those areas, dogs prefer to not be poked there either.
Have a Healthy Fear
It’s best to teach your child to have a healthy fear of dogs. While they are considered man’s best friend and can be so lovable, there is always the chance of danger depending on the animal’s background, so it’s best to err on the side of caution. Make sure your toddler understands that if a dog growls or they become fearful in the situation, it’s best to walk away and find comfort with the adult present.
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